No I Shouldn't!!!

You know how sometimes we have to hear something over and over before we “get it”?  I was told several times to drop the shoulds.  I’m a mom of 3 elementary school boys.  There is so much I want to do for them.  There is so much that I know I “should” be doing for myself.  Let alone all the “shoulds” I should be doing for my marriage.  That’s a whole lot of pressure when it feels like I should do rather than I want to do.  I was conscious of my shoulds for a few days….maybe even weeks after each time I was told.  And then, like any normal person, I stopped thinking about it and just tried to keep up with my busy life.  Sound familiar?  All good intentions, right? 

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